as human, it is so difficult to usnuzon (bersangka baik/think about good things about people). i have a suggestion...maybe, instead of looking at a person that makes you feel uncomfortable, focus on his/her personality taht makes you uncomfortable, try to focus on more important things such as his/her good input, either about Allah or anything relates to life, and focus on his good actions. buang yg keruh, ambil yg jernih.... maybe, this can help us to usnuzon on people and stop gossiping bad things(mengumpat) about people...hopefully, everyday we can improve ourself (and i am telling this to myself as i am not perfect...)
yours truthfully^_^
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